In a recent episode of The Therapy Show, I spoke with Catrina Drinning-Davis, LPC-S, CCTP, EMDR Certified, EMDRIA Approved Consultant, about the realities of working with survivors of domestic violence. With years of experience, Catrina offers practical strategies for therapists - whether you're new to this work or looking to deepen your expertise.

Below are the key takeaways from our conversation, including free resources and details about her NBCC-approved on-demand course.

Catrina’s Background and Clinical Focus

Catrina is a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor based in Texas, also licensed in multiple other states. She specializes in:

• Supporting survivors of domestic violence

• Supervising clinicians working with this population

For Catrina, this isn’t just a job, it’s a calling. She finds deep fulfillment in helping clients move from chaos to clarity, and in empowering fellow therapists to do the same.

Why Every Therapist Should Understand Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is more common than many realize:

• 1 in 3 women will experience some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.

• 1 in 7 men will experience some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.

• 1 in 2 individuals of other genders will experience some form of domestic violence in their lifetime.

These clients are already showing up in our sessions. Even if you don’t specialize in trauma or domestic violence, understanding how to recognize and support survivors is essential for general clinical competence.

Recognizing the Signs of Covert Abuse

Survivors don’t always present with obvious symptoms. Catrina notes that therapists often see:

• Confusion and self-blame

• Inconsistent or chaotic relationship narratives

• Emotional distress without a clear cause

Subtle signs to look for include:

• Gaslighting

• Coercive control

• Isolation tactics

• Digital abuse (monitoring, harassment)

• Emotional or verbal manipulation

Using tools like a “types of abuse” worksheet can often help clients identify and name their experiences for the first time.

Effective Trauma-Informed Approaches

Catrina recommends a two-phase strategy:

1. Build trust with a person-centered approach

2. Address trauma using evidence-based methods like:

   • EMDR

   • Psychoeducation

   • Narrative therapy

   • Somatic techniques

Her NBCC-approved CE course offers foundational training for therapists, with practical, real-world guidance.

Free Resources for Therapists

Catrina provides several free tools for clinicians, including:

• 📝 Types of Abuse Worksheet

• 🚩 Red Flags Handout

• 👥 Monthly Therapist Support Group (2nd Monday @ 7 PM CT)

• 💬 Private Facebook Group for therapists working with DV/IPV

She also created a $29 workbook for survivors, which covers all types of abuse and can be used as a clinical aid or client self-help tool.

Thinking About Creating CE Courses?

Catrina also shared her journey into creating continuing education content. While the process can be time-consuming - especially with NBCC approvals - it’s worth it if you’re passionate about your subject.

Her top advice:

• Start building your email list early

• Engage with Facebook groups and online communities

• Be patient and consistent with marketing

Final Thoughts

Working with survivors of domestic violence is both challenging and deeply meaningful. Whether you're looking to enhance your clinical skills or start offering CE content of your own, Catrina’s insight and resources are a valuable guide.

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